The room filled with dejected faces of men, women, and children, as they listened to the Director of Disaster Management speak: "Our hearts bleed with you; but we cannot change the situation." My heart bled to hear him say that, though I knew it was true. Each day at the office, I meet dozens of refugees telling me—often in very timid and soft-spoken voices, but clear and quiet desperation—that they want to return to their home countries. Even to Congo where it is still not safe. And even to Zimbabwe where the economy is facing serious turmoil as a result of its corrupt government. "You are writing down my information but what are you doing to help us?" asked the Congolese refugee who, earlier that night, disclosed that he had witnessed the murder of his father by soldiers in Congo. I did not have an answer for him. How much could I really do as an intern but to register his information and encourage him to stay strong? I could not even reassure him that things will get better. I felt powerless.
Last Friday was "World Refugee Day." Our office together with a number of other agencies, known as the Durban Refugee Service Providers Network, organized an anti-xenophobia forum at City Hall in Durban to educate people around xenophobia and discrimination, and to make it known that South Africa fully supports its refugees. I sat in on a meeting to plan the event a few days prior, and it was exciting to see the program unfold. The forum included a keynote address from he Deputy Mayor of Durban, some really cool — and powerful — poetry/spoken word pieces from two teenagers, a DVD educating about xenophobia, and personal stories of inspiration from refugees. We all wore t-shirts with the engraving "xenophobia" with the "xe" crossed out to read "xe Nophobia" along with orange ribbons to emphasize unity and respect for all foreigners in South Africa.
Although the speeches from the Deputy Mayor and UNHCR representative echoed with messages of hope and better days to come for refugees and for South Africa, a part of me was dissatisfied: to me, the words were political rhetoric, trite platitudes that did not encompass a clear vision and plan of action for the refugees. After encountering numerous clients at Lawyers for Human Rights and hearing their frustrations and personal cries for help, I expected something more concrete. Like the refugees, I needed some sort of reassurance. Tuna sandwich and a cup of orange juice in hand, I walked out of City Hall at the close of the event with so many thoughts lingering in my mind.
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Durban City Hall (an amazing sight up close!)
Outside the steps of City Hall looking out into the city.
2 comments:
unreal. is your office able to do anything or are they just, as you said, writing down what is said?
jeff
So, your blog almost made me cry. :) To want to help someone get out of their situation and not be able to do anything about it is probably the most frustrating thing. It's discouraging to think that all you can do is write down their information, but after reading this book on refugees in Bosnia, I found that you can help them just by listening. These are the times when most people feel unloved, unwanted and not cared about. But to listen to and empathize with them can help so much. I guess it's hard to ever put yourself in their shoes because you've probably never experienced anything close to what they're going through, but just continue to show them the love and care that I know you're so full of you can't help but to share. :) Just keep them in your prayers and hope for a better tomorrow. And if tomorrow isn't better, try to find a way to make someone else's day better any way that you can. That's all anyone can ask. Stay strong and don't be discouraged. You're making a difference, love, whether you see it or not. ;)
~Raisa
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